You have a crush on her? There’s a possibility
that there are a dozen other guysvouching for heras well. So your
concern is to grab her attention and hold on to it with your life.
1. Gauge The Situation
You finally got her number, but was she totally enthusiastic while
giving it? Or was she being cordial? Or did she do that to simply save
your face at the party? Get to understand her thought process and act
accordingly. If she was enthusiastic, there’s no harm in messaging the
next day with a greeting! Even if she wasn’t, give her some breathing
space or she will find you too clingy. Keep etiquette in mind and
casually tell her you would be messaging the next day. Also, what about
the 3-day rule from How I Met Your Mother? Throw that out of the window;
it’s all about the unique
chemistry you share.
2. Message In Proportion
You glance at your
phone
and see a text from her. What do you do? Send half a dozen messages
about what you’re doing to what you’re eating to what you’re feeling?
No. Just no. Curb that enthusiasm and go easy on her or you’ll make her
look like a deer caught in headlights. Also, don’t message her after
every couple of hours. You might have some free time but that doesn’t
mean she does too. Balance it out and keep it healthy. Overwhelming can
be quite dangerous at times.
3. Don’t Interrogate
You’re
head over heels for
this lass and you want to know everything about her. That doesn’t mean
you should adorn the hat of a cop and barrage her with questions! Go
easy with the questions, space them out a bit. Usually, people tend to
ask a question even before the previous one is perfectly answered. Share
things with her if they are similar. Give a bit of yourself while you
are taking some a bit of her. Another bit of advice, keep the generic
questions aside. Ask her something about her recent hobby, and add your
two bits about it if you do have. It’s always a delight to connect over a
common point.
4. Treat Her Like A Human
You might be visioning her
asa
Greek Goddessdraped in golden silk coming your way, but she too is
human, so do remember to treat her like one while you’re placing her on a
pedestal. She might say something which was meant to be funny but didn’t come off that way; the typical guy might laugh just to please her. You don’t. Keep it real and be true. Women
dig honest men than the ones who’re hell-bent on flattering them
constantly.
5. Keep It Interesting
You have a crush on her? There’s a possibility that there are a dozen
other guysvouching for heras well. So your concern is to grab her
attention and hold on to it with your
life.
Don’t bother with meaningless questions and unnecessary descriptions
about your day. If she loves reading, share few insightful quotes with
her. Understand her hobbies and habits and shape your words around
those. Keep the conversations hilarious and enticing. Women always love a
man with a
funny bone.
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